I've been thinking about this a lot lately, jealousy. It's a horrible thing, and I know people are often divided on whether or not it's a good emotion to feel. For example in a relationship, some people consider it to be healthy, saying that it's good to know that whoever you're with feels strongly enough about you to get jealous. Others may say it's a bad thing, if you allow yourself to get jealous is there no trust in your relationship?
For me personally I think it's somewhere in the middle. For example, my relationship. I get jealous easy, and it's not that I don't trust my boyfriend, I'm just an insecure person. But equally, if he gets jealous over me, I like that he cares enough to be jealous. I still would rather neither of us got jealous, it's such a horrible emotion. I hate the feeling of worry and the ache that I might not be good enough. It's stupid.
Anyone else get this?
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